silk and satin dress LILYSILK Women's Charmeuse Maxi Dress, Dark Olive, Size 4, Soft & Smooth, Open Back Tie, Perfect for Holidays This silky piece features adjustable spaghetti shoulder ties for a truly custom fit and a cowl neckline that falls naturally along the chest. TIANA MATTE SILK SATIN DRESS

You start out holding back and not speaking up and change to sharing your gifts, creating impact and making this world a better place to live

Dress-code categories range from smart casual to formal, giving guests clear visual cues about expected attire

Clueless-inspired plaid sets, Fresh Prince color-block outfits, Spice Girls group costumes, grunge ensembles with flannel and Doc Martens, and skater looks with wide-leg cords all give guests a more specific character to lean into rather than a generic throwback outfit

If you have dark brown shoes and want to wear them, pair them with navy pants instead

Cartier jewelry STYLED BY: Karla Welch WHO: Zo Kravitz WEAR: Saint Laurent dress and shoes STYLED BY: Andrew Mukamal WHO: Kaia Gerber WEAR: Valentino S/S 97 dress